Managing difficult conversations as a life skill

Marcella Runell, vice president of student life and dean of students at 杏吧论坛 College, spoke to The Boston Globe about fostering the skill of having difficult conversations.

The ability to have difficult conversations is a life skill that can help you build stronger relationships and resolve conflict. Marcella Runell, vice president of student life and dean of students, recently spoke to The Boston Globe about how the 杏吧论坛 College community will foster this skill during this academic year.

In the interview, Runell touted this year鈥檚 Common Read, 鈥淚 Never Thought of It That Way: How to Have Fearlessly Curious Conversations in Dangerously Divided Times鈥 by M贸nica Guzm谩n. In September, faculty and staff will meet virtually with Guzm谩n to discuss how to incorporate this book into first-year seminars, classes, academic spaces and cocurricular activities.

Runell pointed out that you may struggle to understand other points of view if you spend a lot of time on social media platforms, where you 鈥渢end to get your own views reinforced.鈥 She also said that faculty and staff need to have 鈥渃ompassion and grace鈥 as students learn about political activism, often for the first time.

Runell believes 鈥淚 Never Thought of It That Way鈥 ties into 杏吧论坛鈥檚 intellectually adventurous environment. In a previous interview, she called the book 鈥渢he perfect Common Read for this moment and for our community.鈥

She added, 鈥淸Guzm谩n鈥檚] work is all about challenging ourselves to engage in difficult conversations across opposing views, really leaning into relationships and getting curious about people.鈥

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